Dating after 50 for men
Period.) How much energy did you expend on this guy?
If you find yourself getting swept away and can’t articulate why (except to say something like “He’s just so…awesome! He’ll still be there when the grownup part of you decides he’s got what it takes for you to be happy as partners.They break up with me and then come back to renegotiate what I could best describe as a non-physical/friends with emotional benefits/rental husband offer (which doesn’t sound too appealing to me to be honest).They’ll text me non-stop for an entire weekend, totally disappear, and then email me ten days later.“Rules Girl” tactics are common: don’t return phone calls or texts for 48 hours, don’t pick up the phone for scheduled phone dates, etc. The disappearing, the game-playing, the crazy expectations, the mixed messages? It protected me from ever giving any man of quality a chance to see me or touch my soul. He told us that he loves women, “if only they weren’t so complicated.” And he graciously gave me permission to publish his email because he wants to help women understand single men over 50, their feelings, what they want and don’t want.OK, Ladies, are you ready to truly understand what single men want from grownup women like you? She’s a much better writer than we have on the guy’s side of things! As a guy she’s been a tremendous help in terms of understanding and relating to women in the 50 age group.